What do rich men want?

What do rich men want?

If your answer is sex, you are right in one respect. Yes, all men want sex. But sex flows freely to a man with money. If your body is your only card on the table, you haven’t got much to offer. When he’s tired of the sex with you, he’ll be moving on.

Don’t be naive and think that you’re good in bed and that will hold him. No matter how good you are, some other woman can be just as satisfying, just as inventive and men get bored with the same woman over and over again. There’s a term that men use called “strange sex.” It’s doesn’t mean that the sex is strange, it’s sex with a stranger that’s exciting.

No matter how many times he tells you that it is the best sex he ever had, eventually he will get the urge to move on.

“For every beautiful woman there is some guy who is tired of fucking her.”

-Eddie Murphy

Qualities Men Want in Their Woman

So what keeps a man’s attention? Well, every man has a different wish list. But the more qualities you have, the more likely you are to attract the right guy and be able to hold his attention.

1.  Beauty

Don’t think you only need to be beautiful in order to get a rich man. Attracting a guy with your looks is only half the challenge. If you don’t have the other qualities that he’s looking for, well, he’ll look, sample, and walk away. Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as anyone knows who has been dumped by a guy only to find that he is dating someone less attractive.

Some men like their women skinny with large breasts, others like their women round with big hips. Some men like athletic bodies that are hard and muscled while others like soft, squishy flesh.  For every size woman, there is a man who likes her just the way she is.

However, you are more likely to catch a man if your body type is more towards the norm. Try to stay within normal weight limits, give or take a few pounds. Being physically fit is most important.

If you need to lose some weight or get in shape, sign up for a gym membership and use it!  If you can’t afford it, there is always the pavement.  Hit it every day whether you’re walking or running.

Make sure your skin is clear.  See a dermatologist if you need to clear up acne or other skin problems. Be sure your pores are clean. If you can’t afford a salon facial, do it yourself.

Don’t overly tan yourself and avoid uneven skin color.  If you have sunspots, they can easily be treated by liquid nitrogen at your dermatologist or by topical preparations from the drugstore.

2.  Have a sweet personality

Having a sweet personality does not mean that you are a pushover. It means that you have a smile that surfaces easily; you don’t let a lot of things bother you; you genuinely like people and respond to them kindly. Being sweet means being compassionate towards others, staying open to different viewpoints without being harshly opinionated, and staying pleasant when everyone else is losing his temper. Sounds impossible, doesn’t it? But that’s what men want.

But doesn’t it seem like it’s the bitches who are getting the men?  Getting them maybe.  Keeping them is another story.

A woman who is strong in her sense of self, not critical of others, and forgiving when things go wrong, is an asset. Look around you.  Watch and see whom others admire.  Ask yourself why they are admired and then copy those traits.

3.  Be able to hold a conversation about things of interest to him

In order to carry on an interesting conversation, you must have interesting ideas in your head. You need to read books and not just fiction. You need to be able to hold up your end of the conversation or at least be knowledgeable about a variety of topics. You will find that common people talk about other people. The upper class talk about ideas, politics, and current events.

Of course, most people also indulge in gossip at some point or another, but you should not. It looks shallow, small minded, and petty. Nothing cools a connection faster than a woman who has nothing to say except gossip. Can you talk about more things than what Brittney Spears or Paris Hilton did last night? If you don’t read the newspaper or the news online, start. If you don’t subscribe to a national magazine, like Newsweek or Time Magazine, get it now. If you can’t afford it, read it at the library.

You need to be aware of national issues, politics, current affairs, and other topics of interest. Reading People Magazine does not count.

4.  Know how to cook

You may think this is not serious since wealthy people eat out frequently. But it is on the wish list of many bachelors. They want to be able to stay home and have a home cooked meal. They want their wives to be able to cook for friends and business associates. They want traditional holiday meals with all the trimmings. Ordering in or going out to dinner gets tiring after a while and a man wants to be able to enjoy his own home.

If you can’t cook, get yourself a beginner cookbook, or take a class and learn. There’s no excuse for not knowing how to use an oven.

5.  Have the ability to get along with his family and friends.

Do you like people? Are you able to get along with different kinds of people? Can you walk into a room full of strangers and find something of interest to talk about? If you can not do these things, learn. Read the book by Dale Carnegie, “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” It’s a great way to learn how to get along with others, even if you don’t think alike.

Getting along with people is an important trait if you are planning on dating rich men. Why? Because so much of what they do involves people. Most men do not become successful on their own. They have a huge support system of friends, business associates, employees, and family members that are a major part of their lives.

If you can’t get along with them, you will be seen as a drag on his life rather than an asset. If you are friendly and easily get a long with a variety of people, he will be drawn to you.

6.  Take an interest in his hobbies.

Men love their hobbies whether it’s basketball, fishing, skydiving or playing video games, and they want you to love what they love. There is an instant disconnect when a man is talking about his favorite team and he hears, “I hate football,” from the woman. If you don’t like sports, learn to like them. Learn how the major games of basketball, football and baseball are played and who the important players are.

When the conversation turns to sports, be able to contribute to the topic at hand instead of sitting on the sidelines.

7.  A sense of humor

Every man says he wants a woman with a sense of humor, but what exactly does that mean? It means he wants you to laugh at his silly jokes, even when it’s the 50th time he’s told it.  He wants you to think it’s funny when he gets drunk, and he wants you to laugh it off when he says something stupid to your mother.

You’ll know when you missed his sense of humor when he says, “Lighten up. I was only being funny.”

8.  Patience and tolerance

If you are not a patient person, don’t think about dating wealthy men. Successful men usually put themselves first, their business second and their women third. You might come first for a few weeks, but after a while… If you don’t believe this, you’re in for a big disappointment. If he’s late for your dates, forgets a special occasion, doesn’t take your call immediately, or breaks an appointment with you to do something else, it’s all part of being in a rich man’s life.

You will also need to tolerate phone calls that interrupt your romantic times, your vacations, your dinners and your sex life. Wealthy men usually have several things going on in their lives at one time. If you can not tolerate his obnoxious business associate who hustles you, his neighbor who calls you a gold digger, his ex wife who snubs you or his dog who slobbers all over you, then you are not the kind of person who should consider dating wealthy men.

If rich is what you want, make patience your middle name.

9.  An ability to socialize

Social events are a staple in a rich man’s world. Be it charity events, business dinners, or relaxing with friends, you will be expected to socialize with people of different ages and backgrounds than you. Not only must you have the gift of delightful conversation and the ability to put strangers at ease,  your manners must be impeccable.

If you’re not sure about your manners, get an updated etiquette book and read it from cover to cover. Some good ones are: Emily Post’s Etiquette, 17th Edition by Peggy Post or Etiquette For Dummies by Sue Fox

10.  An appreciation of his time and generosity

No matter what he does for you, be grateful. The smallest gesture should be noticed and appreciated. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is expecting a lot, but appreciating little.

11.  A willingness to try new things
A healthy attitude for life is necessary when dating rich men. You must be willing to try new foods, go to new countries, meet people of different cultures and learn other languages. A love of learning is necessary to keep your mind fresh and him interested. If that sounds like a lot, understand that wealthy men can have almost any woman they want. If he wants you to learn to sail or sky dive, you should be ready and willing.

You need to be able to stand out from the crowd. You want your rich bachelor to not only notice you and ask you out, but you want him to be interested enough to keep you around for a long time.

How to hook up with a rich man?

First, be a classy woman. Millionaires can attract the most desirable women into their lives, just because of the resources they have.  Furthermore, you should be educated and speak good English. Tattoos are totally out of the question. Never wear imitation jewelry or dangling earrings. If you’re going to have pierced ears, only make it one hole and perhaps pearls with a small diamond, simpler the better. Real gold or platinum, nothing artificial. No artificial jewels either.

Don’t hang around at clubs or liquor establishments. This is where all the prowlers and singles are looking to hook up for casual sex flings. You should avoid these places, because men go there to hunt their prey women. Instead, go to an elegant restaurant that serves liquor, but right after work at 5:00 p.m. Choose a place where people are dressed nicer than just jeans and where attorneys, engineers and political figures like to frequent. Leave by 8:00 p.m. and go home. Go there every Friday night.

Other ways to attract a millionaire is to work on charity fund raisers and volunteer to be the chairperson. Also, you can work as a volunteer chairperson to have a fund raiser for a political  candidate. Attend these functions and donate to worthy causes, but it is better to actually be part of the committee of board of directors than plan the fund raisers and be the chairperson if you can. If you haven’t been solely in charge of a charity fund raiser, then volunteer to be an  assistant to the chairperson.

Most importantly, have your own life and interests. Don’t drop your circle of friends or your regular hobbies and interests and work, just because you meet a rich man. These men are very suspicious of women who may be using them and pretending love just for their money. They can spot a gold digger a mile away. Rich men seem to be draw to women who wear their hair up and do not dress too  sexy or revealing. No bright red nail polish and rather prefer french  manicured nails. Avoid vulgarity like the “f” word in every other sentence. Don’t cuss at all. It is not something that classy women or classy men like to hear and being vulgar all the time to express  yourself indicates you have a mentality of a 2 watt bulb. You should be good at writing business letters and good at expressing yourself in writing. If you’re not, take the appropriate courses.

Well, I’m 53 years old now and I have a very wealthy husband. I was a natural blonde and a beautiful woman in my youth. This is when God gives you all the looks to attract a man. I wasn’t looking for wealth either. I had a good job as a Senate Secretary for many years. I had my own home and made a very good salary. These are the activities I participated in that seemed to attract a lot of wealthy people into my circle of friends, both male and female.

Whatever you do, don’t be clingy or needy or be in awe because you see someone come to pick you up in a rolls royce. It is just like any other car as far as you’re concerned. Remember, rich people poop just the same as anyone else. Don’t be fooled into thinking that because they spent $1,000 dollars on you at dinner, they are madly in love with you.

Oh, there is another very important factor. Wait at least 1 year before you have sex with the man. Date but no sex, until you really get to know them. If you go too fast, the relationship will fizzle. They are used to women giving themselves to them too freely, and the ones that hold out will keep their attention and win them over. I did these things to men, because I came from a different era and women didn’t put out without the relationship being on their terms first. Too many women I see in public are dressing like sluts and drawing attention to themselves, and yes, you will attract horny men but not men that are looking at you as ‘long term wife material”. Men decide within 60 seconds of looking at you whether you are going to be categorized as  “casual sex only” or “long term wife material”. They do this unconsciously as part of the mating game.

Make sure you are a reliable person and by that I mean someone who pays their bills when due and keeps their word. Someone who has a good character and this is best demonstrated by the company you keep.

Millionaire Match Dating Tips

When you sign up initially with MillionaireMatch.com you're asked to select your user id, enter your email address, country, state, zip etc. You have to choose your income level. You can choose not to mention your income as long as you're a millionaire. You need to specify your gender and mention the gender you're looking for. MillionaireMatch.com will let you create a profile whether you're heterosexual, gay or lesbian and you can search for other millionaires with similar sexual orientation who meet your requirement. This sets MillionaireMatch.com apart from some other wealthy dating web sites which don't seem to offer this.

Another big plus with MillionaireMatch.com is that it takes just a couple of minutes to create a profile. You can leave all options as they are and complete the sign up process. Then you can customize your profile and add information when you have more time on hand. This is a useful features and a big time saver when signing up with Millionaire Match.

After signing up or during the sign up process if you prefer, you can specify if you're looking for dating partners, pen pals, activity partners, casual dating opportunities or someone to get married to. You can choose multiple options which means you're open to all possibilities. You can specify how old you expect your match to be, whether you want your match to have children or not. You can limit your matches by race, choosing Asian, Arabic, Middle Eastern, South Asian, Black/African Descent, Mixed Race, East Indian, Caucasian/White, Native American, Hispanic/Latino, Pacific Islander. You can choose the distance within which you want your partner to reside. You can set partner match criterion by height, hair color, eye color, physical apperance, smoking or not, drinking or not, occupation, religion etc.



You can search for millionaires already registered with MillionaireMatch using their search feature which will show you are the people registered from your country. You don't have to be a member for this and MillionaireMatch even lets you view the complete profile as a free member. In fact we recommend that you sign up for their free trial and locate profiles which meet your requirement and then upgrade to a gold membership. This will save you time. When you upgrade to a gold membership MillionaireMatch will let you use their advanced search option. You can also find out who's been viewing your profile or showing interest in it.

MillionaireMatch.com also has a certified millionaire program wherein you can show  them your tax return or bank statement and establish that you're a millionaire. After this they will brand you a 'certified millionaire' on their web site. This should boost your response rate considerably. If you're looking for millionaires, you'll find quite a few certified ones on MillionaireMatch.

You'll find doctors, professionals, models, actors, businessmen, entrepreneurs, investors, heirs to millionaire fortunes and several others on MillionaireMatch.

MillionaireMatch.com has a blog where all its members, including those with free memberships can post messages. This is more like a message board and is a great way to get to know the people who're members there. Just reading their messages will give you an insight into their personalities. They also have a forum, which is the real message board here where you can post messages or just read them on various subjects including astrology, business, family, entertainment, culture and dozens of other categories.

Online dating: You're never too married to go dating

"Married dating" classes promise to drag you and your partner back to the days when you were tearing each other"s clothes off and conversation consisted of more than "good night" at the end of each day.

Married dating classes attempt to school you back into being old romantics by using techniques including individual discussions with a consultant, tips on how to flirt with your partner again, how to dress to impress and how to surprise your partner like you used to.

"When you"re dating, everything is new and exciting," says Elect Club"s Haley Hill, who organises couples" classes. "But when a level of security is reached, we tend to slip into our comfort zone and that initial desire we felt for each other disappears."

The rise of married dating classes comes on the back of new research which states many couples are unable to divorce because of financial restraints.

According to the study by divorce firm Law Options, 60 per cent of married people are too scared to get a divorce because of the cost and more than a third would never leave their partner because of loans and shared mortgages.

For those who find time a problem, some class organisers such as Asian Dinner Club will not only send you out to dinner after your flirt class but will find a babysitter, book you a table and even get someone to vacuum while you are out so your boudoir is ready for romance when you return.

"The hardest part is actually getting people out of the house," says director Salima Manji, whose service will organise surprise "dates" throughout a six-month period and introduce them to other married couples at networking nights.

"During that time we will help you plan any important dates like birthdays and anniversaries and get your confidence back," she says. "Also, by introducing you to other married couples you take the burden of conversation off each other – we encourage you to make new friends and spend a little time apart."

Doctor Manoj Mistry, 35, and his wife, Sam, 34, from west London signed up for the Asian Dinner Club"s married dating classes after routine and work pressures had meant they had started to take each other for granted.

"I went on a “blind date” – with my husband," says Sam. "This happened after the club had given us both a bit of a style makeover so we looked sexier. Just arriving separately made it seem exciting again, like in the days before being married when you never fully know how the night will turn out."

Manoj was less enthusiastic to begin with but was soon convinced.

"As a guy I feel the responsibility to think of romantic things to do, so it was good to have someone come up with cool places to go out in London and do the “man” part of sorting out all the bookings."

These classes are a much less serious alternative to relationship counselling, says Elect Club"s Haley Hill (pictured). In her "Passion Reviver Package" you meet a consultant as a couple, then on your own to find out what you feel is causing the relationship to stall. Then follows "tailored relationship consulting", including style and fitness advice. Fed up of his spare tyre? Has her nagging put an end to sex? Get the consultant to let each other know. The consultancy then books you a sexy weekend away.

If all else fails, you can always put a gun to their heads.

Hill says: "The most popular part of our service is the Spy School weekend – it"s hard to see your wife in the same way after you have watched her shoot a revolver and learn body combat. It provides sexy new experiences to talk about over a romantic dinner that night."

Should We Look Down Upon "Dating A Rich"

     In this world.There are more than 6 billion people.And most of them are living in the cities.So many persons make our live stressful.We need make money.Also we need a rest.Most of us are normal.We don't have much money.We get money from boss.Maybe we will be fired in someday.Nowadays,many young men and young women get married because of love.They fight in the big city.Just because they want to make their life better.But all we know it's hard for a young couple.

     

     So lots of young choose another way to make life better.Find a rich man or rich woman.So she or he could be rich also.And she or he don't have to work.But also has lots of money to spend.For those people who are fighting in the city using their own hands,this kind of people should be despised.They look down upon the people loving rich.They may think the young only see the money.And don't care about the true love.

     

     What if a girl find a rich man with true love?Actually this girl make me jealous of.But I know we will not look down upon this girl.Course we don't think this girl's eyes isn't full of money,but full of love.

     This kind of girls make me think about dating a rich.We really should not look down upon this kind of persons who loving rich.Money and love,we get both of them.This is a dream life most of us want to have.So we don't have the right to look down upon "dating a rich".They should not be despised.

    

     No one marries for money; they are all clever enough, before marrying a millionaire, to fall in love with him(her) first.