What do rich men want?

What do rich men want?

If your answer is sex, you are right in one respect. Yes, all men want sex. But sex flows freely to a man with money. If your body is your only card on the table, you haven’t got much to offer. When he’s tired of the sex with you, he’ll be moving on.

Don’t be naive and think that you’re good in bed and that will hold him. No matter how good you are, some other woman can be just as satisfying, just as inventive and men get bored with the same woman over and over again. There’s a term that men use called “strange sex.” It’s doesn’t mean that the sex is strange, it’s sex with a stranger that’s exciting.

No matter how many times he tells you that it is the best sex he ever had, eventually he will get the urge to move on.

“For every beautiful woman there is some guy who is tired of fucking her.”

-Eddie Murphy

Qualities Men Want in Their Woman

So what keeps a man’s attention? Well, every man has a different wish list. But the more qualities you have, the more likely you are to attract the right guy and be able to hold his attention.

1.  Beauty

Don’t think you only need to be beautiful in order to get a rich man. Attracting a guy with your looks is only half the challenge. If you don’t have the other qualities that he’s looking for, well, he’ll look, sample, and walk away. Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as anyone knows who has been dumped by a guy only to find that he is dating someone less attractive.

Some men like their women skinny with large breasts, others like their women round with big hips. Some men like athletic bodies that are hard and muscled while others like soft, squishy flesh.  For every size woman, there is a man who likes her just the way she is.

However, you are more likely to catch a man if your body type is more towards the norm. Try to stay within normal weight limits, give or take a few pounds. Being physically fit is most important.

If you need to lose some weight or get in shape, sign up for a gym membership and use it!  If you can’t afford it, there is always the pavement.  Hit it every day whether you’re walking or running.

Make sure your skin is clear.  See a dermatologist if you need to clear up acne or other skin problems. Be sure your pores are clean. If you can’t afford a salon facial, do it yourself.

Don’t overly tan yourself and avoid uneven skin color.  If you have sunspots, they can easily be treated by liquid nitrogen at your dermatologist or by topical preparations from the drugstore.

2.  Have a sweet personality

Having a sweet personality does not mean that you are a pushover. It means that you have a smile that surfaces easily; you don’t let a lot of things bother you; you genuinely like people and respond to them kindly. Being sweet means being compassionate towards others, staying open to different viewpoints without being harshly opinionated, and staying pleasant when everyone else is losing his temper. Sounds impossible, doesn’t it? But that’s what men want.

But doesn’t it seem like it’s the bitches who are getting the men?  Getting them maybe.  Keeping them is another story.

A woman who is strong in her sense of self, not critical of others, and forgiving when things go wrong, is an asset. Look around you.  Watch and see whom others admire.  Ask yourself why they are admired and then copy those traits.

3.  Be able to hold a conversation about things of interest to him

In order to carry on an interesting conversation, you must have interesting ideas in your head. You need to read books and not just fiction. You need to be able to hold up your end of the conversation or at least be knowledgeable about a variety of topics. You will find that common people talk about other people. The upper class talk about ideas, politics, and current events.

Of course, most people also indulge in gossip at some point or another, but you should not. It looks shallow, small minded, and petty. Nothing cools a connection faster than a woman who has nothing to say except gossip. Can you talk about more things than what Brittney Spears or Paris Hilton did last night? If you don’t read the newspaper or the news online, start. If you don’t subscribe to a national magazine, like Newsweek or Time Magazine, get it now. If you can’t afford it, read it at the library.

You need to be aware of national issues, politics, current affairs, and other topics of interest. Reading People Magazine does not count.

4.  Know how to cook

You may think this is not serious since wealthy people eat out frequently. But it is on the wish list of many bachelors. They want to be able to stay home and have a home cooked meal. They want their wives to be able to cook for friends and business associates. They want traditional holiday meals with all the trimmings. Ordering in or going out to dinner gets tiring after a while and a man wants to be able to enjoy his own home.

If you can’t cook, get yourself a beginner cookbook, or take a class and learn. There’s no excuse for not knowing how to use an oven.

5.  Have the ability to get along with his family and friends.

Do you like people? Are you able to get along with different kinds of people? Can you walk into a room full of strangers and find something of interest to talk about? If you can not do these things, learn. Read the book by Dale Carnegie, “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” It’s a great way to learn how to get along with others, even if you don’t think alike.

Getting along with people is an important trait if you are planning on dating rich men. Why? Because so much of what they do involves people. Most men do not become successful on their own. They have a huge support system of friends, business associates, employees, and family members that are a major part of their lives.

If you can’t get along with them, you will be seen as a drag on his life rather than an asset. If you are friendly and easily get a long with a variety of people, he will be drawn to you.

6.  Take an interest in his hobbies.

Men love their hobbies whether it’s basketball, fishing, skydiving or playing video games, and they want you to love what they love. There is an instant disconnect when a man is talking about his favorite team and he hears, “I hate football,” from the woman. If you don’t like sports, learn to like them. Learn how the major games of basketball, football and baseball are played and who the important players are.

When the conversation turns to sports, be able to contribute to the topic at hand instead of sitting on the sidelines.

7.  A sense of humor

Every man says he wants a woman with a sense of humor, but what exactly does that mean? It means he wants you to laugh at his silly jokes, even when it’s the 50th time he’s told it.  He wants you to think it’s funny when he gets drunk, and he wants you to laugh it off when he says something stupid to your mother.

You’ll know when you missed his sense of humor when he says, “Lighten up. I was only being funny.”

8.  Patience and tolerance

If you are not a patient person, don’t think about dating wealthy men. Successful men usually put themselves first, their business second and their women third. You might come first for a few weeks, but after a while… If you don’t believe this, you’re in for a big disappointment. If he’s late for your dates, forgets a special occasion, doesn’t take your call immediately, or breaks an appointment with you to do something else, it’s all part of being in a rich man’s life.

You will also need to tolerate phone calls that interrupt your romantic times, your vacations, your dinners and your sex life. Wealthy men usually have several things going on in their lives at one time. If you can not tolerate his obnoxious business associate who hustles you, his neighbor who calls you a gold digger, his ex wife who snubs you or his dog who slobbers all over you, then you are not the kind of person who should consider dating wealthy men.

If rich is what you want, make patience your middle name.

9.  An ability to socialize

Social events are a staple in a rich man’s world. Be it charity events, business dinners, or relaxing with friends, you will be expected to socialize with people of different ages and backgrounds than you. Not only must you have the gift of delightful conversation and the ability to put strangers at ease,  your manners must be impeccable.

If you’re not sure about your manners, get an updated etiquette book and read it from cover to cover. Some good ones are: Emily Post’s Etiquette, 17th Edition by Peggy Post or Etiquette For Dummies by Sue Fox

10.  An appreciation of his time and generosity

No matter what he does for you, be grateful. The smallest gesture should be noticed and appreciated. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is expecting a lot, but appreciating little.

11.  A willingness to try new things
A healthy attitude for life is necessary when dating rich men. You must be willing to try new foods, go to new countries, meet people of different cultures and learn other languages. A love of learning is necessary to keep your mind fresh and him interested. If that sounds like a lot, understand that wealthy men can have almost any woman they want. If he wants you to learn to sail or sky dive, you should be ready and willing.

You need to be able to stand out from the crowd. You want your rich bachelor to not only notice you and ask you out, but you want him to be interested enough to keep you around for a long time.

How to hook up with a rich man?

First, be a classy woman. Millionaires can attract the most desirable women into their lives, just because of the resources they have.  Furthermore, you should be educated and speak good English. Tattoos are totally out of the question. Never wear imitation jewelry or dangling earrings. If you’re going to have pierced ears, only make it one hole and perhaps pearls with a small diamond, simpler the better. Real gold or platinum, nothing artificial. No artificial jewels either.

Don’t hang around at clubs or liquor establishments. This is where all the prowlers and singles are looking to hook up for casual sex flings. You should avoid these places, because men go there to hunt their prey women. Instead, go to an elegant restaurant that serves liquor, but right after work at 5:00 p.m. Choose a place where people are dressed nicer than just jeans and where attorneys, engineers and political figures like to frequent. Leave by 8:00 p.m. and go home. Go there every Friday night.

Other ways to attract a millionaire is to work on charity fund raisers and volunteer to be the chairperson. Also, you can work as a volunteer chairperson to have a fund raiser for a political  candidate. Attend these functions and donate to worthy causes, but it is better to actually be part of the committee of board of directors than plan the fund raisers and be the chairperson if you can. If you haven’t been solely in charge of a charity fund raiser, then volunteer to be an  assistant to the chairperson.

Most importantly, have your own life and interests. Don’t drop your circle of friends or your regular hobbies and interests and work, just because you meet a rich man. These men are very suspicious of women who may be using them and pretending love just for their money. They can spot a gold digger a mile away. Rich men seem to be draw to women who wear their hair up and do not dress too  sexy or revealing. No bright red nail polish and rather prefer french  manicured nails. Avoid vulgarity like the “f” word in every other sentence. Don’t cuss at all. It is not something that classy women or classy men like to hear and being vulgar all the time to express  yourself indicates you have a mentality of a 2 watt bulb. You should be good at writing business letters and good at expressing yourself in writing. If you’re not, take the appropriate courses.

Well, I’m 53 years old now and I have a very wealthy husband. I was a natural blonde and a beautiful woman in my youth. This is when God gives you all the looks to attract a man. I wasn’t looking for wealth either. I had a good job as a Senate Secretary for many years. I had my own home and made a very good salary. These are the activities I participated in that seemed to attract a lot of wealthy people into my circle of friends, both male and female.

Whatever you do, don’t be clingy or needy or be in awe because you see someone come to pick you up in a rolls royce. It is just like any other car as far as you’re concerned. Remember, rich people poop just the same as anyone else. Don’t be fooled into thinking that because they spent $1,000 dollars on you at dinner, they are madly in love with you.

Oh, there is another very important factor. Wait at least 1 year before you have sex with the man. Date but no sex, until you really get to know them. If you go too fast, the relationship will fizzle. They are used to women giving themselves to them too freely, and the ones that hold out will keep their attention and win them over. I did these things to men, because I came from a different era and women didn’t put out without the relationship being on their terms first. Too many women I see in public are dressing like sluts and drawing attention to themselves, and yes, you will attract horny men but not men that are looking at you as ‘long term wife material”. Men decide within 60 seconds of looking at you whether you are going to be categorized as  “casual sex only” or “long term wife material”. They do this unconsciously as part of the mating game.

Make sure you are a reliable person and by that I mean someone who pays their bills when due and keeps their word. Someone who has a good character and this is best demonstrated by the company you keep.

Millionaire Match Dating Tips

When you sign up initially with MillionaireMatch.com you're asked to select your user id, enter your email address, country, state, zip etc. You have to choose your income level. You can choose not to mention your income as long as you're a millionaire. You need to specify your gender and mention the gender you're looking for. MillionaireMatch.com will let you create a profile whether you're heterosexual, gay or lesbian and you can search for other millionaires with similar sexual orientation who meet your requirement. This sets MillionaireMatch.com apart from some other wealthy dating web sites which don't seem to offer this.

Another big plus with MillionaireMatch.com is that it takes just a couple of minutes to create a profile. You can leave all options as they are and complete the sign up process. Then you can customize your profile and add information when you have more time on hand. This is a useful features and a big time saver when signing up with Millionaire Match.

After signing up or during the sign up process if you prefer, you can specify if you're looking for dating partners, pen pals, activity partners, casual dating opportunities or someone to get married to. You can choose multiple options which means you're open to all possibilities. You can specify how old you expect your match to be, whether you want your match to have children or not. You can limit your matches by race, choosing Asian, Arabic, Middle Eastern, South Asian, Black/African Descent, Mixed Race, East Indian, Caucasian/White, Native American, Hispanic/Latino, Pacific Islander. You can choose the distance within which you want your partner to reside. You can set partner match criterion by height, hair color, eye color, physical apperance, smoking or not, drinking or not, occupation, religion etc.



You can search for millionaires already registered with MillionaireMatch using their search feature which will show you are the people registered from your country. You don't have to be a member for this and MillionaireMatch even lets you view the complete profile as a free member. In fact we recommend that you sign up for their free trial and locate profiles which meet your requirement and then upgrade to a gold membership. This will save you time. When you upgrade to a gold membership MillionaireMatch will let you use their advanced search option. You can also find out who's been viewing your profile or showing interest in it.

MillionaireMatch.com also has a certified millionaire program wherein you can show  them your tax return or bank statement and establish that you're a millionaire. After this they will brand you a 'certified millionaire' on their web site. This should boost your response rate considerably. If you're looking for millionaires, you'll find quite a few certified ones on MillionaireMatch.

You'll find doctors, professionals, models, actors, businessmen, entrepreneurs, investors, heirs to millionaire fortunes and several others on MillionaireMatch.

MillionaireMatch.com has a blog where all its members, including those with free memberships can post messages. This is more like a message board and is a great way to get to know the people who're members there. Just reading their messages will give you an insight into their personalities. They also have a forum, which is the real message board here where you can post messages or just read them on various subjects including astrology, business, family, entertainment, culture and dozens of other categories.

Online dating: You're never too married to go dating

"Married dating" classes promise to drag you and your partner back to the days when you were tearing each other"s clothes off and conversation consisted of more than "good night" at the end of each day.

Married dating classes attempt to school you back into being old romantics by using techniques including individual discussions with a consultant, tips on how to flirt with your partner again, how to dress to impress and how to surprise your partner like you used to.

"When you"re dating, everything is new and exciting," says Elect Club"s Haley Hill, who organises couples" classes. "But when a level of security is reached, we tend to slip into our comfort zone and that initial desire we felt for each other disappears."

The rise of married dating classes comes on the back of new research which states many couples are unable to divorce because of financial restraints.

According to the study by divorce firm Law Options, 60 per cent of married people are too scared to get a divorce because of the cost and more than a third would never leave their partner because of loans and shared mortgages.

For those who find time a problem, some class organisers such as Asian Dinner Club will not only send you out to dinner after your flirt class but will find a babysitter, book you a table and even get someone to vacuum while you are out so your boudoir is ready for romance when you return.

"The hardest part is actually getting people out of the house," says director Salima Manji, whose service will organise surprise "dates" throughout a six-month period and introduce them to other married couples at networking nights.

"During that time we will help you plan any important dates like birthdays and anniversaries and get your confidence back," she says. "Also, by introducing you to other married couples you take the burden of conversation off each other – we encourage you to make new friends and spend a little time apart."

Doctor Manoj Mistry, 35, and his wife, Sam, 34, from west London signed up for the Asian Dinner Club"s married dating classes after routine and work pressures had meant they had started to take each other for granted.

"I went on a “blind date” – with my husband," says Sam. "This happened after the club had given us both a bit of a style makeover so we looked sexier. Just arriving separately made it seem exciting again, like in the days before being married when you never fully know how the night will turn out."

Manoj was less enthusiastic to begin with but was soon convinced.

"As a guy I feel the responsibility to think of romantic things to do, so it was good to have someone come up with cool places to go out in London and do the “man” part of sorting out all the bookings."

These classes are a much less serious alternative to relationship counselling, says Elect Club"s Haley Hill (pictured). In her "Passion Reviver Package" you meet a consultant as a couple, then on your own to find out what you feel is causing the relationship to stall. Then follows "tailored relationship consulting", including style and fitness advice. Fed up of his spare tyre? Has her nagging put an end to sex? Get the consultant to let each other know. The consultancy then books you a sexy weekend away.

If all else fails, you can always put a gun to their heads.

Hill says: "The most popular part of our service is the Spy School weekend – it"s hard to see your wife in the same way after you have watched her shoot a revolver and learn body combat. It provides sexy new experiences to talk about over a romantic dinner that night."

Should We Look Down Upon "Dating A Rich"

     In this world.There are more than 6 billion people.And most of them are living in the cities.So many persons make our live stressful.We need make money.Also we need a rest.Most of us are normal.We don't have much money.We get money from boss.Maybe we will be fired in someday.Nowadays,many young men and young women get married because of love.They fight in the big city.Just because they want to make their life better.But all we know it's hard for a young couple.

     

     So lots of young choose another way to make life better.Find a rich man or rich woman.So she or he could be rich also.And she or he don't have to work.But also has lots of money to spend.For those people who are fighting in the city using their own hands,this kind of people should be despised.They look down upon the people loving rich.They may think the young only see the money.And don't care about the true love.

     

     What if a girl find a rich man with true love?Actually this girl make me jealous of.But I know we will not look down upon this girl.Course we don't think this girl's eyes isn't full of money,but full of love.

     This kind of girls make me think about dating a rich.We really should not look down upon this kind of persons who loving rich.Money and love,we get both of them.This is a dream life most of us want to have.So we don't have the right to look down upon "dating a rich".They should not be despised.

    

     No one marries for money; they are all clever enough, before marrying a millionaire, to fall in love with him(her) first. 

Millionaire Match For You

Seriously, what’s the deal with all these rich men match websites? I was chatting with a fellow female member of the site a few days ago and we started talking about the difference between certain dating sites; their pros and cons…

We had both been members of millionairematch before, and for reasons I don’t think need explaining, decided that it was time to get involved with men of a different… caliber.

So, after an unsuccessful stint with the big 3, I joined an actual ‘millionaire matchmaking’ service. The price is not too much for 6 months, with an actual GUARANTEE of landing me a soul-mate who made over $150,000 a year. I know, I was naive. But surprisingly, right after I signed my non-refundable contract with Sally Smith (not her real name, who owned 5 locations belonging to what turned out to be a large millionaire dating Franchise – with locations all over the country), I was hopeful.

The first thing they had me do was make a ‘Classic Profile’, which included a video, and a general online profile which they would submit to various bachelors… The whole process was humiliating. I ended up spending over $5,000 on their special hair and makeup artists, not only for the video (which was Never completed), but for the only ‘date’ I went on through their service. The guy I was lucky enough to be matched with was all too aware of how much of a rarity he was. Smug doesn’t even come close to describing this guy, who let me know, BTW, that I was wearing too much makeup.

All in all, I came to know that the only way to really get what you want in the niche dating pool, is to cast the net yourself. Thus, I am here now. In the 4 months I’ve been on millionairematch, I’ve established connections with several gentlemen. Still looking for that special ‘one’ though, but now I’m setting the sails, and I know that real love can’t be rushed.

Beauty and Rich

A beautiful young American girl made a paste in a large online forum on financial Edition: how can I marry a rich guy? I am 25 years old, very beautiful, it is kind of amazing to pretty; conversation elegant taste, people wanted to marry an annual salary of $ 500,000. You might say that I am greedy, but in New York a million a year is middle class, so I do not. This version has no annual salary of more than 50 million people? You are married? I would like to ask you a question: How can I marry you to the rich? I have people around, the richest annual salary of 250,000. I sincerely to ask, there are several specific issues: a wealthy bachelor spend time where? I should in which age? Third, why some rich wife look homely, but they managed to join the wealthy? Singles bar awesomeness beauty but poor luck. How do you decide who can do his wife, who only do a girlfriend? (My goal now is to get married).

- Powles Ms.

Here is a Wall Street financier Replies:

Dear Powles: It is with great interest read your stickers, I believe many of Ms. similar questions with you, let my capacity as an investment expert, an analysis of your situation and my annual salary of more than 500,000, in line with your spouse, so please believe that I am not wasting everyone's time from the businessman's point of view, is a bad business decision to marry you, plain and simple, please listen to my explanation. aside marginal, you said in fact is a simple 'fiscal' appearance 'transactions: charming appearance by Party A, Party B money, fair trade, fair trade, but there is a fatal problem Your beauty will disappear, but my money would never perpetuity. fact, my income might increase year by year, but you will not be getting any more beautiful. Therefore, from the point of view of economics, I was value-added assets, you are a depreciating asset, not only devalued, but also accelerated depreciation you are 25 years old, in the next five years, you can still maintain a slim figure, pretty appearance, although slight decline each year, but the beauty disappears faster and faster, if it is your only asset, a decade later, the value of your worrying.

Wall Street terms, each transaction has a position dealing with you are 'trading position' to sell immediately once the decline in value, and should not be held on a long term basis - that is, you want the marriage. Sounds cruel, but it will accelerate a depreciation of the material, the wise choice is to lease rather than purchase. Annual salary of more than 500,000 people, of course, is not a fool, so we will only contacts, but we will not marry you, so I advise you not to hard to find the secret to marry the rich, by the way, but you had You can think of ways to become an annual salary of 50 million people, than you run into the possibility of a rich fool.

I hope, I must say you have help, if you are interested in 'leasing', please contact me. '

After you reading,How do you think?Whatever you are a man or a woman.Whatever your purpose is.Welcome to lovingrich.com.See what you want to see.

How to Find Your Match through Dating Sites

There are so many ways to look for a date. If you are unlucky with the typical blind dates and set up dates, then you can try online dating. You may be having a hard time in looking a perfect date this holiday season, but you can spend your time on the Internet and seek for the best match based on your preference. Are you looking for the right partner that you can spend time for the rest of your life? Then you can go to online dating sites.  There are millions of people all over the world that are virtually looking for a date. You can be one of them by creating your online profile and share it across all continents of the planet.

In this modern generation, people are getting involved with the so-called long-distance relationships. You can easily reach out to your loved ones with the use of chat, email and social networks. Indeed, there are several options to choose from when you want to communicate to people from different countries.  All you need to have is a laptop/PC and an internet access to be able to reach out with someone far from you. You can get rid of the traditional snail mail and hook yourself to the exciting world of online dating.

It is true that virtual dating can be very fun to indulge with because you will meet various races and faces. On the other hand, it can also be very risky since you don’t know these people personally. It can be very difficult to find the best partner for your life, but you can start by signing up to any free online dating sites  and set up your complete profile and preference. Let’s take a look at some basic steps on how to find your match through dating sites.

• Make sure that you upload an attractive photo of you. It should be a very recent picture of you and not the old ones from your photo archives. The first thing that people will look at is your profile picture. Keep in mind that before they browse down to your personal information, they initially scrutinize your photo and see if they like it or not. Your picture should be realistic and not a result of any photo shop, though you can enhance your picture a little bit if you want. Don’t get frustrated if you feel like you are not that good-looking because you will never know how most people appreciate different physical appearance. Just be yourself and be proud of how you look like.

• You can find your perfect match by creating your own profile. Make sure that you honestly answer all the personal questions about you so that you will not look like to be pretending. On the other hand, you must not share any personal information that is inappropriate and unnecessary. Set your preference on which sexuality or any personal characteristics that you are looking for a date.

After you completed these basic steps, you can now browse on the website and you will be surprised how this thing works.

How to protect yourself online

Online dating services have been existent for many years now and people are still hooked up to this stimulating way of meeting people virtually. The rise of social media like Facebook and Twitter are probably a threat to the not so old dating websites; however, we cannot deny that many individuals are continually being involved with this type of dating despite of the various mediums that people can use on the internet today. Whatever and whoever you may be, you are very welcome to join this method of meeting people in any parts of the world.

The fact that online dating is considered to be a very useful idea to get a date and hook up with someone, on the other hand, many individuals are still being fooled or even get scammed by unknown people they meet online. You may receive many invitations from people who want to meet you face to face. You may also get indecent proposals from unwanted people. However, you may need to follow some rules and tips that you should keep in mind when indulging diverse people from free online dating sites. It is imperative that you keep yourself away from any trouble because we are in a vulnerable world where risks and dangers are almost everywhere.

Looks can be very deceiving and people transform differently when you are dealing with them. You cannot easily identify their true motive or if there is any hidden agenda that they want from you. You should always be vigilant and aware of any consequences if you are not engaging in unusual situations like meeting people with different cultures. In order to be protected online, you must consider some tips for safe and secured online dating.

• The first thing to consider when having your first date is to do it in public. Of course, you can’t just meet new people in a hotel room or any private place where few people are around. You must prioritize your safety when it comes to first encounter with a new date. Even though you already meet and talk to them online, you still have to consider them as a stranger because you might be clueless of the real person you are dealing with. The perfect place to have your first date is at a cozy restaurant. It could be very romantic and convenient as well for the both of you. You may proceed to get to know each other and ask questions about him/her so that you know who you are dating with.

• If you prefer to have a long distance dating, then you need to set aside a specific time and budget in terms of travel time and costs. Make sure that you specify it in your profile so that both of you can arrange things before getting into a date. If you are staying in a hotel, don’t set up a date within the hotel because it may be very tempting. If you are comfortable with your date or partner and you are ready to give up yourself, make sure that you are sexually protected with the use of protective measures or other methods because you will never know how disease can be transmitted easily.

Overall, be safe when you consider dating online. Don’t fall easily into your prospective date without knowing him in person. Be as cautious as you can be.

Archive for category Dating Tips

Most men enjoy being the provider in the relationship as well as wine and dine his woman. He doesn’t mind taking her on expensive dates, purchasing material possessions and just spoiling her. What happens when all of that becomes the main focal point of the relationship? What is the rich man supposed to do? Well, if you think that the woman you are seeing you is not really into you, but into the money that you can spend on her. You need to know about the 5 Signs That She Is A Gold Digger:

1. She never pays for food, clothing, etc: If you are dating a woman who has never suggested picking up the tab while out for dinner, pay movie tickets, etc; then unfortunately she is only using you for money. She is expecting you to be the one who pays for everything in the relationship as she has no intentions of ever pulling out her pocket book.

2. She doesn’t work: This woman has no career aspirations and has no intention of ever having a job to help support herself. She feels the need to live off of you and you are most likely not the first person she has done this too. Find out if she has ever had a job and if the answer is no; then you already know what she has been doing to survive.

3. She only wants to go to expensive places to dine, vacation, etc.: She will only suggest the expensive places for you to take her out at. If you are not throwing down hundreds if not thousands of dollars a night, then she is not happy. This will clearly prove that she is only using you to spend all of your hard earned money on her.

4. She gets upset when you don’t spend cash on her: She has the personality of a child and if she doesn’t get her way or those new pairs of Jimmy Choos, then she throws a tantrum. This clearly should show you that she only cares about your money and what you can buy her.

5. She feels that she deserves the world: Woman who are gold diggers always feel that they deserve the world and that everyone should do what they say. She basically wants everything in the world, but doesn’t want to work for any of it.

If you see any of these signs in a woman that you are dating make sure you end that relationship right away. Of course, if you don’t mind then continue on dating this woman. Most wealthy men are looking for love, but it can be a bit hard finding the perfect woman. Good luck with you.

Where To Find Your Millionaire Mate

I gave lovingrich.com members statistics on how many millionaires gained their status, but we need to talk about where they are and how to meet them. I will continue to post the Four Key Concepts, go through them and then again each time drilling down further so you can get a thorough understanding of how you are going to reach your goal.

1. Understanding who millionaires are, and where millionaires are
2. How to meet millionaires and attract their attention
3. How to date millionaires and keep their attention
4. How to get the millionaire to commit to marriage

I have been busy, busy, busy, engaging with millionaires, enticing and delighting and mystifying. I have also collected a slew of have-nots and had great fun all the while! I have questioned and engaged on your behalf to share with lovingrich.com members.

Understanding who millionaires are, and where millionaires are

Millioniares can be anywhere. When I worked in finance we had to read the books, The Millionaire Next Door, by Thomas J. Stanley, William D. Danko, and Rich Dad, Poor Dad, by Robert Kiyosaki. These two books should be required reading for lovingrich.com members. Many millionaires have read both of them, so it will give you something to talk about as well as a better understanding of the mentality of the millionaire mind. They will also remind you not to judge a book by its cover. The worst thing you can do it make assumptions about people. Millionaires come in all shapes, sizes and personality types. They live all over the US, but they frequent the best cities, the best restaurants even when they are not the best dressed.

Millioniare’s can be found on line by way of their interests, their hobbies, their vacation choices, their friends, their business connections. They can be found near their offices, at conferences and at special events, fundraisers and working in their communities, on company boards, foundations and in politics. You can meet them by joining their causes and helping to support their success.

If you want to meet a millionaire on line, be sure you include willing to relocate and willing to travel in your profile. Men may ask you if you are willing to relocate because they often need to stay close to their businesses, and if it is truly what you are looking for, you must be willing to sacrifice. Because millionaires are active in business and need to constantly up their game, so should you.

I advise reading current news topics and stepping away from magazines like Cosmo, Allure, and other celebrity junk when it’s time for information gathering and stimulating conversation. My personal favorite magazines and news publications are: the New York Times, Vogue, Wall Street Journal, the Economist, Huffington Post and ODE Magazine. For some mainstream info, read People and Time in line at the super market (not the Enquirer or Star). You can subscribe online to these business publications and find successful contributors as well as people who are mentioned in articles. This way you can familiarize yourself with the names and activities of the successful players in business. These are your successful targets. If you cannot physically live next door to a millionaire, live next to one virtually by gathering information that will enable you to carry on great conversation and perhaps make you more successful as well. Being interesting is all about being interested and motivated to reach your goal!

How to Be Successful in Dating a Millionaire

Steps

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   Know that millionaires might be too busy for love. Being wealthy does not necessarily come hand in hand with being happy and in love. A millionaire lifestyle is often associated with long hours and stressful jobs and the breakdown of marriage as a result. Therefore, there are actually plenty of eligible millionaires out there looking for love, but often with little clue of where to find it.
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   Avoid trashy locations. If you are looking to date affluent singles, then you need to know where to find them, and looking in your local bar or club is not the place to be. Even when you were younger, places such as your local bars were no good for searching for anything else than a trashy date, and as a mature single you really need to steer clear as much as possible.
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   Join an on-line dating site. Times have changed, and if you've just returned to being single after divorce, then you may be pretty clueless as to where to look for dating possibilities. A great new way to get what you want nowadays is by joining online dating sites. This is great especially if you are busy at work and have little opportunity for a social life. Let’s face it, if you want to date a millionaire, then you are looking for doctors, CEOs and attorneys, all who are far too busy to be hanging out in the local bar. Internet dating is no longer for no-hopers, and if you find the right site, it might just be your road to success.
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   Make an interesting online profile. To become successful in dating a millionaire, you need to make your profile be as interesting as possible, and you need to represent yourself as a good asset to be seen on the arm of a millionaire. For this, you need to avoid trashy adult chat sites, avoid suggestive photos and comments on your profile, and put yourself across as the potential partner of a wealthy single.
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   Search for matches. Once you've signed up and created your profile, don't wait for people to find you. Go out and search through the profiles. Make a short list of doctors or lawyers that you wish to flirt with and get to know online, allowing you to pick and choose from only the very best.
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Tips For Dating A Millionar

Dating or becoming a millionaire

There are many ways to turn yourself into a millionaire. Pursue and succeed at a high-income or stock option-rich occupation. Earn a steady salary, invest wisely, and live frugally. Or, of course, marry someone who has already done these things or, better yet, who simply inherited his or her millions and thus is not worn down by toil.

The Odds

The good news is that the number of millionaires is increasing. Estimates are that there will be 5.6 million millionaires in the United States by 2005. Furthermore, with more women joining the millionaire ranks, new options are opening up for male gold diggers.

Unfortunately, while there are thus more millionaires than ever before, very few of them are single. According to Thomas Stanley's The Millionaire Mind, 92 percent of those millionaires are married, 2 percent are divorced, 2 percent are single and have never been married, and 4 percent are widowed meaning that 8 percent of our 5.6 million millionaires, or 448,000 millionaires, are single. As of the 2000 Census, of the 221 million Americans age fifteen and over (which is roughly marrying age in most states), 60 million (7 percent) had never been married, 22 million (10 percent) were divorced, and 15 million (7 percent) were widowed a total of 97 million singles.

In other words, the odds that the person you're dating is a millionaire are 215 to 1.

Improving the Odds

From an analytical perspective, improving your odds of marrying a millionaire consists of four steps: (1) locating a millionaire; (2) attracting the millionaire; (3) dating the millionaire; and (4) getting the millionaire to the altar. But how to move from step (1) to step (4)?

For advice here, it's best to rely on the experts: scheming women who have used every possible artifice to date rich men and acquire their lifestyles. Thankfully, at least two such women have written books: Lisa Johnson, author of the comprehensive How to Snare a Millionaire, and Ruth Leslee Greene, author of the hard-hitting How to Marry Money. Qualified? You bet. Ms. Johnson is described on her book jacket as "a multimedia journalist and food critic" who "has dated many men of wealth, most of whom have proposed to her." Ms. Greene's biography is not mentioned anywhere in her book, and is not discoverable on-line; there is a good chance that the author's name is not even Ruth Leslee Greene. But is the fact that the book was written by a pseudonymous author a reason not to take it seriously? To the contrary, it may well have been written by a woman who wishes to hide her scheming secrets from her incredibly wealthy husband or his suspicious family. (Three words: Anna Nicole Smith.)

In any event, standing on the narrow shoulders of these social climbing giants, we proceed to think through the spotting, pursuit, and conquest of the rich.

Locating Your Millionaire

Obviously, some places are much better for spotting a millionaire than others. Among the hot spots that common sense and our experts' wise counsel identify as good places to explore are yacht clubs, Episcopal churches, polo matches, art auctions, and charity functions and more recently exclusive dating sites.

Equally important, though, is avoiding places where you are unlikely to ever run into a millionaire, and thus are wasting your time. Ms. Johnson, in How to Snare a Millionaire, contributes a comprehensive list, including:

• Laundromats
• Wal-Marts
• tractor pulls
• Denny's
• adult magazine shops
• professional wrestling matches
• cosmetology school
• auto parts stores

Of course, spotting one's quarry is in some ways the easiest step. The true skill comes in what follows. Moving in for the Will

Approaching millionaires must be done carefully, as they are nervous creatures prone to flight. Generally, your approach will need to vary with the situation, but Ms. Greene, in How to Marry Money, offers some tried and true approaches:

• On a cruise, wait until your quarry leaves his deck chair to get a drink or use the facilities, and then occupy it. When he returns, first quarrel over the chair, then apologize, then flirt.
• Determine the brand and number of tennis balls your quarry uses. Buy identical balls, and occupy the court adjacent to his. Gradually, steal all of his, and insist they are yours. (While Ms. Greene is too sweet to describe the method as such, at this point one might note that you have him by the balls.) Then, according to Ms. Greene, "After being such a bitch, the very least you can do in apology is invite him for some refreshment."
• Buy a dog and walk it in wealthy neighborhoods. Teach the dog to bite whomever you designate, and point it toward preselected millionaires. In the course of offering apologies and first aid, strike up a conversation.

If you use these methods wisely, you have the chance to make that all-important first impression, and entice him to ask you out. Now the game's afoot! Dating and Beyond

Once you have a millionaire smitten, the job is to keep him interested.

First date. The first date will be crucial. In How to Snare a Millionaire, Ms. Johnson offers comprehensive advice on what you should say and do on the first date, with the prime directive being to "establish common interests, and express great enthusiasm for them." Equally important, though, are things to avoid on that first date for example, Ms. Johnson counsels against:

• insisting that your children come along
• asking him to help you out with your "financial difficulties"
• chewing tobacco
• expecting him to empty your garbage
• inquiring about the beneficiary of his life insurance policy

If you feel you may have a hard time navigating this minefield, you may wish to write these down, or pick up a copy of her book.

Inviting him into your lair. When your millionaire visits your apartment or house to pick you up for a first or subsequent date, you will need to present an attractive lifestyle. Here Ms. Johnson's book again provides some keen insights. You may wish to have on display art prints, an espresso machine, an inviting couch, and big fluffy towels. Items that Ms. Johnson counsels avoiding: fuzzy toilet seat covers; crossword puzzle books; an abundance of medication sitting around; and a "zoo" of stuffed animals. You will not wish to look eccentric or needy.

Closing the Deal

Once hooked, your millionaire needs to be brought on board promptly, without time for reflection. Ms. Greene counsels strongly for elopement, thereby minimizing the potential for familial disruption. Failing that, she offers this sage counsel:

Try to tie the knot in a very small church or registry office so you won't have to invite your embarrassing cousins or old friends among whom your improved fortunes have triggered cupidity and envy. Detach from them without rancor, and adjust to the rarefied atmosphere of your new rich life. A small price, really, for such a large success!

Really, that says it all.