How to Be Successful in Dating a Millionaire

Steps

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   Know that millionaires might be too busy for love. Being wealthy does not necessarily come hand in hand with being happy and in love. A millionaire lifestyle is often associated with long hours and stressful jobs and the breakdown of marriage as a result. Therefore, there are actually plenty of eligible millionaires out there looking for love, but often with little clue of where to find it.
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   Avoid trashy locations. If you are looking to date affluent singles, then you need to know where to find them, and looking in your local bar or club is not the place to be. Even when you were younger, places such as your local bars were no good for searching for anything else than a trashy date, and as a mature single you really need to steer clear as much as possible.
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   Join an on-line dating site. Times have changed, and if you've just returned to being single after divorce, then you may be pretty clueless as to where to look for dating possibilities. A great new way to get what you want nowadays is by joining online dating sites. This is great especially if you are busy at work and have little opportunity for a social life. Let’s face it, if you want to date a millionaire, then you are looking for doctors, CEOs and attorneys, all who are far too busy to be hanging out in the local bar. Internet dating is no longer for no-hopers, and if you find the right site, it might just be your road to success.
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   Make an interesting online profile. To become successful in dating a millionaire, you need to make your profile be as interesting as possible, and you need to represent yourself as a good asset to be seen on the arm of a millionaire. For this, you need to avoid trashy adult chat sites, avoid suggestive photos and comments on your profile, and put yourself across as the potential partner of a wealthy single.
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   Search for matches. Once you've signed up and created your profile, don't wait for people to find you. Go out and search through the profiles. Make a short list of doctors or lawyers that you wish to flirt with and get to know online, allowing you to pick and choose from only the very best.
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Tips For Dating A Millionar

Dating or becoming a millionaire

There are many ways to turn yourself into a millionaire. Pursue and succeed at a high-income or stock option-rich occupation. Earn a steady salary, invest wisely, and live frugally. Or, of course, marry someone who has already done these things or, better yet, who simply inherited his or her millions and thus is not worn down by toil.

The Odds

The good news is that the number of millionaires is increasing. Estimates are that there will be 5.6 million millionaires in the United States by 2005. Furthermore, with more women joining the millionaire ranks, new options are opening up for male gold diggers.

Unfortunately, while there are thus more millionaires than ever before, very few of them are single. According to Thomas Stanley's The Millionaire Mind, 92 percent of those millionaires are married, 2 percent are divorced, 2 percent are single and have never been married, and 4 percent are widowed meaning that 8 percent of our 5.6 million millionaires, or 448,000 millionaires, are single. As of the 2000 Census, of the 221 million Americans age fifteen and over (which is roughly marrying age in most states), 60 million (7 percent) had never been married, 22 million (10 percent) were divorced, and 15 million (7 percent) were widowed a total of 97 million singles.

In other words, the odds that the person you're dating is a millionaire are 215 to 1.

Improving the Odds

From an analytical perspective, improving your odds of marrying a millionaire consists of four steps: (1) locating a millionaire; (2) attracting the millionaire; (3) dating the millionaire; and (4) getting the millionaire to the altar. But how to move from step (1) to step (4)?

For advice here, it's best to rely on the experts: scheming women who have used every possible artifice to date rich men and acquire their lifestyles. Thankfully, at least two such women have written books: Lisa Johnson, author of the comprehensive How to Snare a Millionaire, and Ruth Leslee Greene, author of the hard-hitting How to Marry Money. Qualified? You bet. Ms. Johnson is described on her book jacket as "a multimedia journalist and food critic" who "has dated many men of wealth, most of whom have proposed to her." Ms. Greene's biography is not mentioned anywhere in her book, and is not discoverable on-line; there is a good chance that the author's name is not even Ruth Leslee Greene. But is the fact that the book was written by a pseudonymous author a reason not to take it seriously? To the contrary, it may well have been written by a woman who wishes to hide her scheming secrets from her incredibly wealthy husband or his suspicious family. (Three words: Anna Nicole Smith.)

In any event, standing on the narrow shoulders of these social climbing giants, we proceed to think through the spotting, pursuit, and conquest of the rich.

Locating Your Millionaire

Obviously, some places are much better for spotting a millionaire than others. Among the hot spots that common sense and our experts' wise counsel identify as good places to explore are yacht clubs, Episcopal churches, polo matches, art auctions, and charity functions and more recently exclusive dating sites.

Equally important, though, is avoiding places where you are unlikely to ever run into a millionaire, and thus are wasting your time. Ms. Johnson, in How to Snare a Millionaire, contributes a comprehensive list, including:

• Laundromats
• Wal-Marts
• tractor pulls
• Denny's
• adult magazine shops
• professional wrestling matches
• cosmetology school
• auto parts stores

Of course, spotting one's quarry is in some ways the easiest step. The true skill comes in what follows. Moving in for the Will

Approaching millionaires must be done carefully, as they are nervous creatures prone to flight. Generally, your approach will need to vary with the situation, but Ms. Greene, in How to Marry Money, offers some tried and true approaches:

• On a cruise, wait until your quarry leaves his deck chair to get a drink or use the facilities, and then occupy it. When he returns, first quarrel over the chair, then apologize, then flirt.
• Determine the brand and number of tennis balls your quarry uses. Buy identical balls, and occupy the court adjacent to his. Gradually, steal all of his, and insist they are yours. (While Ms. Greene is too sweet to describe the method as such, at this point one might note that you have him by the balls.) Then, according to Ms. Greene, "After being such a bitch, the very least you can do in apology is invite him for some refreshment."
• Buy a dog and walk it in wealthy neighborhoods. Teach the dog to bite whomever you designate, and point it toward preselected millionaires. In the course of offering apologies and first aid, strike up a conversation.

If you use these methods wisely, you have the chance to make that all-important first impression, and entice him to ask you out. Now the game's afoot! Dating and Beyond

Once you have a millionaire smitten, the job is to keep him interested.

First date. The first date will be crucial. In How to Snare a Millionaire, Ms. Johnson offers comprehensive advice on what you should say and do on the first date, with the prime directive being to "establish common interests, and express great enthusiasm for them." Equally important, though, are things to avoid on that first date for example, Ms. Johnson counsels against:

• insisting that your children come along
• asking him to help you out with your "financial difficulties"
• chewing tobacco
• expecting him to empty your garbage
• inquiring about the beneficiary of his life insurance policy

If you feel you may have a hard time navigating this minefield, you may wish to write these down, or pick up a copy of her book.

Inviting him into your lair. When your millionaire visits your apartment or house to pick you up for a first or subsequent date, you will need to present an attractive lifestyle. Here Ms. Johnson's book again provides some keen insights. You may wish to have on display art prints, an espresso machine, an inviting couch, and big fluffy towels. Items that Ms. Johnson counsels avoiding: fuzzy toilet seat covers; crossword puzzle books; an abundance of medication sitting around; and a "zoo" of stuffed animals. You will not wish to look eccentric or needy.

Closing the Deal

Once hooked, your millionaire needs to be brought on board promptly, without time for reflection. Ms. Greene counsels strongly for elopement, thereby minimizing the potential for familial disruption. Failing that, she offers this sage counsel:

Try to tie the knot in a very small church or registry office so you won't have to invite your embarrassing cousins or old friends among whom your improved fortunes have triggered cupidity and envy. Detach from them without rancor, and adjust to the rarefied atmosphere of your new rich life. A small price, really, for such a large success!

Really, that says it all.

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For a single wealthy man dating can become frustrating and at times extremely difficult. He might not have time to go on pointless and uninteresting dates due to working most of the time. He needs to be able to find someone quick during his down time. There are some tips that could definitely help him be successful in the dating world and have the chance to experience love and romance in his busy life.

10 Dating Rules For Single Wealthy Men:

1. Don’t Think You Have A Type: No two women are the same, so for that you don’t have a “type.” It’s more that you have a preference in what kind of woman that you are interested in; such as a smart, successful, stylish, doctor etc.

2. Don’t Talk About Another Woman: When you are on a date with some of interest, don’t talk about another woman or the women of your past. This is definitely not appropriate or not the time that you should be having this discussion.

3. Be Respectful: Treating a woman with respect is the key. Also treat her well. If you know that she loves Reese Cups, surprise her one day with a tiny bag of it. Giving small, thoughtful gifts are always a good thing.

4. Pay For Dinner, Movies etc: When you are a gentleman, you should always pay for the first date and that includes all of the activities for the first date as well.

5. Express What Your Feelings: If you have been dating this particular woman for some time there is no need to hide your feelings about her and how you feel about where this could possibly go. Be open and honest in what you are thinking and more important feeling.

6. Don’t Make Promises That You Can’t Keep: No matter how small or big a promise is don’t make one that you cannot keep. If you keep making promises that you know good and well you can’t keep, then stop. All you are accomplishing is hurting her feels and making yourself to be the bad guy.

7. Communicate: Communication is key in any type of relationship. Talk about what is on your mind no matter what. Of course if the topic is something of serious, try to be nice and kind in the way you bring up the topic.

8. Don’t Look Through Personal Objects: Don’t check her text messages, emails, or social network profile. If there is some type of trust issues going on then you need to discuss what is going on right away.

9. Don’t Involve Yourself With A Aggressive Woman: If you notice on the first date that the woman seems a bit aggressive you should not have a second date. Signs of this type of aggression could be that she is controlling, angry issues, and just plain old bad.

10. Believe In Her: A woman likes it when a man believes in her and shows that he is interested in her and what she is trying to accomplish.

10 Tips For Seduction Online

Single dating is different these days and you need to appeal to the person you are trying to date for seduction online. There are a million profiles out there and the art seduction needs to start at the first level of engagement. It then needs to c

arry over into the conversation whether it is online or on the phone. I do not recommend spending time talking on the phone- it can kill the mystery. If you are ‘married but looking’ seduction also takes another course, but these tips can help lay the groundwork for deeper communication and pleasurable ‘date nights’ as well. Dating is a dance and it starts here with the first level of attraction and engagement.

Be Intriguing

A mysterious photo or something in your selection of photos that is interesting enough to spark a question and be seductive. Don’t just throw sexy photos up like everyone else. Do something that sets you apart. Do take professional looking shots with good lighting, not faded old photos scanned in from high school or some blurring beach vacation. For example, show yourself doing something unusual. When you connect, be direct and inquisitive-surprisingly, this is not standard online conversation-Do Not Start talking about sex- that is not intriguing it moves away from mystery. Allude to it.

Show Confidence

Your photos and your profile need to show confidence but not arrogance. Confidence is seductive and sexy; it shows you know who you are and what you like. Step out of the box and separate from the crowd by saying something that everyone else does not know you like. For example, more people who see my dating profile know I love poetry than people who meet me in the context of work or my normal social life. It is intimate and personal. Be comfortable with who you are and allow your date/mate to be who they are. Both can exist at the same time-that is confidence.

Exhibit Control

Keep your language measured and metered. Do not blab in your profile; that is not sexy. Read it out loud before you post and see if it has rhythm and flows in the context of speech. Control means revealing some of the unusual, but not showing your entire hand. Keep some skin in the game but use it to draw the prospect in with a steady hand. You can do this by making decisions about how and where you meet or showing that you have stepped outside the box to grow.

Illustrate Intelligence

Read the other person’s profile. Intelligence is seductive and sexy online and in person. Ask your match about their profile and be specific. Understand who you are going to engage with and do not ask the obvious questions. Probe from another angle and answers to the obvious questions will come forward as well. What are you an expert in? Capitalize on it without repeating yourself. Intelligent people are interested in many subjects and they take action around those things.

Show Humor

People love to laugh and laughing is sexy, while the idea of a laugh is seductive. If you find anything about the other person funny, tell them right away or ask them about it. For example, I asked a guy about his very John Denver profile photo with the crazy glasses. I engaged with him on the glasses and said they made me laugh out loud. Where did he get them and why that profile photo? Immediately, he has gotten the response he is looking for or he would not have chosen that photo and we know we can laugh.

Engage

Again, show humor or notice something specific about the other person’s profile. Do not notice the obvious, notice the subtle and ask questions. It is the same as in texting. If you do not ask a question, it exhibits lack of interest and there is no need to respond. Making a statement and moving on is like walking by and making a comment without waiting for the other person to respond. It is actually rude. Do not write long heart-felt letters to engage people. They feel obligated to respond in kind and will move on if they are busy. But do not make it too short either. 10 sentences are best unless there is a real connection and a long distance. Pay attention and notice details.

Connect- ask questions but not trite ones

If there is nothing in the profile that sparks your interest but you like the looks of the person or are intrigued by them, ask about that. Stay away from the mundane and the usual fare! Seduction comes with connection and mystery. It sparks the imagination. What can you imagine doing with someone? Show that you have flare and can be creative. Connecting on an imagined adventure is seductive and alluring.

Find Common Ground

Find common interests that you can share. This does not mean past experiences, this means new experiences to create the new life and new vision that people are looking for in a new relationship. Do not rehash the past. You can find alignment in experiences like travel, work, etc, but the real intrigue comes from imagining something new to connect on. What do you both wish you could do and have never done? If you are talking on the phone by now, allow the other person to talk and finish what they have to say. Speak slowly but with energy.

Be Direct

Direct is sexy and seductive. You can still be alluring, and intriguing, while being direct and answering questions in detail without rambling. Make connections between subjects that show your intelligence but reveal enough about yourself with an honest response if you want to start off on the right foot.

Don’t Play Games

Online seduction does not mean playing games. If you give it a chance, you might find you are “interesting to yourself” as my mother once said. When you discover this- all bets are off and you are the sexiest creature on earth! Believe it. It is one thing to intrigue; it is another to waste people’s time. If you have not intention of meeting a person, do not engage with them. If you are interesting, and you are, then you need not be an attention seeker and you won’t be bored yourself. People are on dating sites for a reason, and my experience is that most are serious about finding a relationship rather than playing games. Life is too short!

What was your most effective profile line and how many people mentioned it when you were contacted?

Millionaire dating tips

If you have considered going to a dating website to find yourself a wealthy man, consider this first:

THE ODDS ARE GOOD THAT THE GOODS ARE ODD

Good looking men with money don’t usually have a hard time finding women to date.  As a result, they certainly aren’t going to need, much less pay someone to find a woman for them.

But there are also lots of millionaires who are busy making money and don’t have the time or inclination to go looking for a date. It is much easier to page through the profiles of dozens of beautiful women and pick out the ones they like than to hang out in bars hoping to find a woman.

If you’re lucky, you’ll meet one of those busy millionaires if you sign up at a “millionaires only” web dating service. If you’re unlucky, you’ll end up with the wealthy men who can’t get dates any other way.

Why can’t a millionaire easily get a date?

If a wealthy man can’t get a date it’s usually because there is something wrong with him, which is why he ends up at dating web site. But these online matchmakers also know something that no one likes to talk about…that a man with money will eventually get a woman no matter what his faults are, as long as she knows he has money. Which is why a dating website that advertises “millionaire bachelors” will always attract women, even if the guys are a bit flawed.

Be aware then, that a dating website catering to “millionaires” might have some or all of the following clientele:

1. Men who have something physically, socially, or mentally wrong with them
2. Married men
3. Men who aren’t rich

Men who have physical, social or mental problemsMen who have trouble getting dates might have unappealing characteristics. You have to ask yourself, “How much am I willing to tolerate in order to be around wealth?” Are you willing to date men who are:

• Physically unattractive
• Handicapped or crippled
• Hygienically unclean
• Into extreme fetishes or compulsions
• HIV positive or have herpes
• Mean or controlling
• 70, 80, or 90 (They don’t call it “Sugar Daddies” for nothing.)
• Sick
• Socially inept
• Mentally unstable
• Want submissive women

Lots of men looking for partners are married.

If you have no moral issues with dating married men and think it doesn’t matter as long as he is rich, you must be prepared to be a temporary toy in his life. The fun is over when:

• He gets bored
• His wife finds out
• You become demanding
• You get tired of spending most of your time alone
• You frequently have to drop any plans you had for a last minute rendezvous with him
• It’s not as exciting as you thought it would be

Life with a married man is not all fun and games.  He is often not available, but he expects you to be ready and waiting when he does have time for you.

He plans on spending the holidays with his family and may not have time to get away to see you, but don’t think of flying home to see your family.  He wants you available “just in case.” Many a lonely night will be spend waiting “just in case.”

If you don’t like it, just remember: his money, his rules.

You’re making a mistake if you believe he’s going to leave his wife for you.

Married men who secretly date other women rarely leave their wives. If they were going to do it, they would have done it already, so they wouldn’t have to sneak around. No matter how many times he tells you he loves you, and that you just have to be patient and give him some time, he isn’t going to leave his wife. You will discover too late that there will never be a good time for him to leave her.

He will have dozens of excuses:

• Wait until the kids are out of the house
• Wait until his finances are in order, so he doesn’t have to give her half of his fortune
• Wait until his sick wife is feeling better

Wait, wait, wait. On and on the excuses will come.

Don’t start with a married man and you won’t have to regret ending it. Remember, the more of your youthful years you give to a married man, the fewer years remain to find someone that is yours.

Are you thinking that dating a rich man would be worth it, even if you eventually break up? You may have acquired a few expensive things, but you are older, have a reputation for dating married men and for being a gold digger, who is willing to put up with anything for money. I can’t imagine any scenario where that is a good idea.

Unless he is putting thousands of dollars in an account for you to get yourself out of town and start over somewhere else, it is not worth the risk. You certainly aren’t going to easily find another rich man. Rich men don’t usually like dating other rich men’s discarded goods, especially women with negative reputations.

He could be lying about his wealth

If you have the looks and the stomach for unusual men, you still have to deal with the fact that many of the men who sign up with dating websites and matchmaking services, may not be wealthy.

Remember the show, “Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire?” The lucky girl who won couldn’t stomach the guy for even their short “honeymoon.”  They slept in separate rooms and she annulled the marriage as soon as she got back to town.  Apparently his million wasn’t enough to entice her to stick around.

Even if the dating service claims to check out the background of the men who apply, IRS forms can be faked as well as bank statements and paychecks. In other words, there is no guarantee that he is who he says he is.

How much money makes a man “wealthy?”
Do you want a guy with a private jet who has homes in several countries, or will you settle for someone who has a great job, a house and vacations in wonderful places? Do you want your jewelry from Tiffany’s and Cartier or will diamonds from the local jeweler suffice?

For some women, a wealthy man is anyone who has a job and isn’t asking her to pay for dinner. For others, their idea of a wealthy man is someone on the Forbes list of the wealthiest men in the world.

If this is you, you are not likely to find him through a dating website. That man meets women all the time without help.

If you think you can tolerate anything as long as a man has money, a dating service advertising millionaire match-ups might be an option for you.

However, your looks are important. Photos are used as introductions. You won’t be picked out of a line up of eager faces because of your personality. Your looks are what you are selling.

If a dating service is not for you, you’ll need an alternative method of finding a millionaire. Looking for ideas on the internet about where to find wealthy men, you’ll discover such suggestions as meeting a rich man by borrowing a pedigree dog and walking it in wealthy neighborhoods. Silly idea.

After you spend a couple of days traversing up and down the street, the only thing you’re likely to get is arrested. Either the neighbors are going to report a strange woman canvassing the street day after day, or they’re going to assume you’re a hooker.

As much as you’d like to believe it, wealthy men are not hanging out on the street waiting to meet women. They don’t judge women by the dogs they walk, and they don’t like women who pretend to be something they are not.

So how do you meet decent rich men? The simple answer is: go where they are.

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